I've also noticed that in my dating life, its always either feast or famine, as they say. Either there are 5-10 guys trying to lock me down or there is no one to be found. I don't know if a lot of people has this problem, but it has always been the case for me. Im sorry, but when there are 5-10 people professing their never ending love and adoration for you at the same time, its damned impossible to take anyone seriously. Then comes the famine, where all of my texts go unanswered and my phone never dings. Its hard not to become jaded and just give up on the whole thing.